We’ve all been there. You finish cleaning the kitchen, only to turn around and find that a trail of destruction has been left behind in your wake.
Whether it’s the different glass of water that gets freshly poured every single time someone wants a drink (because apparently using the same cup is a no-go), the toothpaste explosion that seems to find its way into every corner of the sink, or the never ending game of “find the thing” where pulling out the bottom towel from a stack causes everything to come tumbling down – it’s as if messes are being created faster than we can clean them up.
Two hilarious parody videos have captured this chaotic reality perfectly, showing just how impossible it can be to stay ahead of the constant messes. But no matter how fast you clean up, it’s like the messes multiply.
The truth is, children (and even some adults) are experts at making sure their messes follow them wherever they go.
But let’s not just talk about it – let’s laugh about it together.
If you’re in the toddler trenches, you know the drill – no matter how fast you clean, the mess is always a step ahead.
Whether it’s clothes left in a path like a personal runway, snack wrappers scattered like confetti, or socks that mysteriously vanish – someone’s always making a mess, and it’s never their fault.
It’s not just about tidying up – it’s about surviving the chaos and sometimes all you can do is laugh through the madness. Because really, if you’re not laughing, you might just cry.
But wait, there’s hope! Dr. Chelsey Hauge-Zavaleta, PhD, shares some expert tips on how to get kids to clean up. First, avoid phrasing your requests like questions – no “Can you please pick that up?” Instead, give clear, direct instructions.
And don’t say “OK” at the end of your request; it can sound like an option, not a command. Stay within arm’s reach – being close helps them focus on you.
Get specific with your directions, like “You pick up the red, I’ll grab the blue.” Offer lots of praise for their efforts, and make sure the instructions are easy to process.
Most importantly, get close, praise them when they follow through, and reinforce the idea that the goal is to build a strong relationship with you.
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As for the adult mess-makers – you know, the ones who leave their socks everywhere and think the laundry fairy will come – maybe just try that strategy with a lot more sarcasm and a lot less patience.
But let’s not forget the grown ups in the house who seem completely blind to the chaos they’re creating as well.
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Sometimes, the best way to get them to clean up is to “accidentally” trip over their pile of clothes while you’re carrying coffee. Works like a charm.
